GRANDMA LOVE

July 29,2020
GRANDMA LOVE
If I were an oak tree….my grandson Lucas has quietly and gradually carved his initials into my trunk.
How can a bundle of such helpless fragility be so powerful?
His target is my heart. His purpose in my life is to etch himself into my soul and in so doing shed a spotlight onto my journey thus far with a new clarity and a new purpose…and did I mention….a new joy that spices what was already there.
He conquered my heart in those sweet moments as he innocently slept (or even fussed) in my arms.

SWEET MEMORIES

Sept 29, 2019

As with every memorable life experience….its about the people. It’s the people who in some fashion touched our hearts and made an indelible sweet mark.

Here you see Wendy, the hotel hostess from Visgnola bidding us goodbye; the restaurant hostess (Louisa) and her maitre’de (Alberto) who urged us into their dining room that first rain drenched stressful night and had us sit for dinner instead of carry something out (we had our first bottle of red and Italian lasagna that night) and we returned for lunch two days later to visit them and have one of our most delectable lunches on our three week Italy tour; to Fanush, a fellow traveler (she was from Iran) who sat at the table beside us; and the sweet little girl flirting with me at breakfast our first morning in Visgnola.

People memories are like the salt you add to your favorite soup recipe because they enhance the experience so it’s flavor lasts forever in your soul.

A GRANDMOTHER’S EYE VIEW

August 5,2021

He loves to look up at the sky and point to the birds. He’ll gaze upward looking for them and point when he sees them. I wonder what the birds see…or think…when they gaze below at a 14 month old little boy full of wonder.

What I see as I gaze down at him is simply blessing.

I get to spend 2 fun filled, laughter filled, exhausting filled and intense days per week with my grandson. I wanted this snapshot today from our dog walk excursion because I know that sometime soon (probably not so soon…but it will feel like soon) when he no longer needs his stroller.

So, I get to see his chubby little knees and blond head with his cowlick at the crown. He’s holding a flower because he ‘demands’ I pick ones now and then for him. He usually drops them somewhere along the way, but that doesn’t matter.

Lucas loves our dog walks. They’ve become part of our biweekly ritual. Children love ritual and routine…and he gets to see the world roll by with his grandma and 2 Scotties, Mackenzie and Angus.

For me, the photo provides an indelible memory of this sweet fleeting moments of his life. For him, my prayer is that love and security is etching it’s way deep into his soul. Over time, he most likely will not remember these morning strolls, but the love becomes sealed within his memory vault of images mixed with the hugs and unconditional acceptance that will define his character as he journeys on.